Fruitful but Finished: When Letting Go is Wisdom

Understanding When Some Seasons End - Holding On Becomes the Greater Risk

I was hesitant to respond to the suggestion of cutting down our coconut tree. It towers above our house and produces delicious fruit throughout the year. There is nothing like fresh buko juice for breakfast straight from the branches!

Not everything fruitful can remain!

The tree was still standing. Still green. Still fruitful. From the outside, there was no obvious reason to interfere. Yet beneath the bark, termites had hollowed it out at the base, weakening what once seemed strong.

Only one-third of the trunk remains intact.

I suspect the damage extends further underground, as a strong breeze causes it to sway more than it should. If the nest has expanded, then the roots are probably unstable too.

Delay Deepens the Damage

Leaving it untouched felt kinder than cutting it down, but further delay only allows the damage to spread. Although it still bears abundant coconuts, the risk of its sudden collapse on our pets or home has been increasing.

We have waited, monitored, and waited further

How long do we hesitate? Is another hopeful season of fruit worth the gamble of another month, or is it more responsible to mitigate the risk and ensure safety?

Coconuts are just 20 pesos each at the market stall. They are easily available!

Delaying decisions can become a greater risk!

Preservation Becomes Neglect

What had looked like preservation was slowly becoming neglect, and the question was no longer if it needed to be removed, but when.

We must learn to accept the difficult truth that not everything fruitful is meant to remain, and wisdom requires us to act.

Discernment and the Courage to Act

After writing earlier this week about "Heal the tree, not the fruit," we had to face the reality that this tree cannot be saved. It is unstable and unpredictable, and waiting any longer would be irresponsible.

Some hazards simply need to be removed.

It may seem harsh, but if the tree is failing, it isn't good fruit anymore if there is danger!

Why Some Fruitful Seasons Must Still Come to an End

Learning when "not yet" becomes "now".

Sometimes we delay decisions, hoping for change or a miracle. Miracles are always possible, but some situations are irreversible. No matter what you try or wait for, the same decision awaits. It's not a yes or a no; it's a when?

when.

Some endings do not occur due to failure but rather because a season has come to a close. Wisdom lies not only in nurturing growth but also in recognising our responsibility for protection.

While removal can be painful, it can also serve as an act of stewardship and safeguarding, trusting that God remains faithful beyond what we must release.

Now we have our last harvest of 40 coconuts, and our home is secure! We won't have to keep tying ropes to stabilise it every time the winds rise or a typhoon approaches.

We often pray for favour, fruitfulness and increase, but we must equally pray for wisdom, discernment, and the ability to steward what is entrusted to us.

Don’t rush past the discomfort. Pause, pray, and ask: What decision have I been delaying, and why?

Reflection Questions

Last sips of Buko juice from our final harvest!

• Is there something in my life that is still producing fruit but quietly causing harm?

  
  

• Where have I delayed a necessary decision, hoping for change that has not come?

  
  

• What am I protecting by avoiding removal—and what might I be risking instead?

  
  

• Can I trust God with the ending of a season, not just the beginning of a new one?

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